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Things I used to believe were true and now I know to be false:
There is something somewhere out there I have to somehow find. (A purpose! A soulmate!)
I am the only person in the world who feels anxious, lonely, isolated and insecure and as such I will never tell anyone. (Shhhh.)
If I work hard enough I can make someone love me.
Making someone love me is a good use of my energy.
Failure will destroy me and I cannot afford to make mistakes.
Success means working harder than everyone else.
I need to live up to another person’s expectations of me.
Disappointing anyone must be avoided at all costs.
If someone is envious, that’s on me.
If someone intimidates me, that’s on them.
My worth is measured by my productivity.
Sleep is a waste of time.
Me being critical of myself will somehow result in me changing my behavior.
Changing my mind defines me as wishy washy.
My patterns are my destiny.
I am who I am and cannot alter my personality.
True love does not need boundaries.
Boundaries are a barrier to true intimacy.
Taking responsibility = taking the blame.
Forgiving is forgetting, condoning, excusing - it means a clean slate.
Someone else can make me happy.
If I am not happy all the time there is something wrong with my life.

Кого ищу

Serious relationship, 25 to 55